Why Do We Wait Until We’re Leaving to Make It Lovely?

Turns Out the Buyer Gets the Backsplash

By Sarah Allen
Real estate coordinator, homeowner, and human navigating life’s plot twists

I’m in the thick of getting my house ready to sell. Which, as it turns out, is the ultimate motivation to finally check things off the to-do list I’ve been ignoring since… maybe 2016?

You know the one. Power wash the siding. Fix the deck. Paint that one weird wall. And now, finally, I’m staring down the big ones: updating the flooring, replacing the countertop, and putting in the backsplash I’ve been waiting years to do (but couldn’t, of course, until the new counter was in).

The to-do list has officially become the now-do list.

Why Now? Seriously—Why Now?

It’s not that these projects weren’t important before. It’s just that life got in the way. I lived with them. Worked around them. Ignored them. And now that I’m leaving? Suddenly, everything’s urgent.

And let’s be honest—kind of exciting. There’s something satisfying about finally making the home look and feel the way I always imagined it could.

Fresh Paint and Mild Regret
Step one: paint wall. Step two: wonder why you didn’t do this three years ago.

This Isn’t Just Me, Right?

I’ve seen this so many times with sellers over the years. And on our team at Compass, it’s a running theme—we all joke about the way houses get their glow-up just as we’re packing boxes.

It’s not a criticism. We’ve all done it. It’s one of those weird, shared human habits that somehow makes perfect sense and absolutely none at all.

A woman stands outside her home with raised eyebrows and her arms outstretched in a confused shrug, wearing a blue long-sleeve shirt. The house behind her features beige siding, a navy blue door, and tidy landscaping.
When you realise everyone suddenly fixes their house up just before moving.

Staging a Life You Never Quite Got to Live

What really gets me is how lovely the house feels now. More polished. More peaceful. Less like something I’ve been negotiating with, and more like something I want to be in.

Which begs the question: why didn’t I do this sooner?

Why do we treat our homes better in the last few weeks than we did in the last few years?

A perfectly staged living room with a beige sofa, two matching pillows, a light wood coffee table, and soft natural lighting. The space includes minimal decor, a table lamp, and a potted plant, giving it a calm and welcoming feel.
Did I finally create the living room of my dreams? Yes. Am I moving out in two weeks? Also yes.

Maybe It’s Time to Rethink the Timeline

I’m starting to believe we shouldn’t wait. Not for a listing. Not for a move. If your house is begging for fresh paint, or your kitchen backsplash is still a Pinterest board in your head—what if you just did it?

For the joy. For the comfort. For you.

A woman sits at a bright white kitchen counter, holding a mug and facing a shiny white subway tile backsplash. The space features a stainless steel faucet, white cabinets with modern handles, and a simple wooden tray with a small plant and bowl.
Goodbye, backsplash. We barely knew each other… but you sure are pretty.

REAL TALK

If you’re nodding along because you’ve done the exact same thing—or you’re in the middle of your own pre-sale reno sprint—I get it. I really do.

And you’re not the only one. Around here, we don’t just help people through this—we live it too. Maybe next time, we don’t wait until the end to create a home we actually love living in.
Maybe we just… go ahead and do it now.

And if you’re wondering what’s actually worth doing before you sell—reach out. We’re happy to talk it through, no pressure.

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